Is your guy a flirt?

A still from Cocktail

Saw Cocktail? In the movie Saif portrays the role of a flirt and a player. He lives to play with girls,  relationships do not really mean anything to him. So how to know if the man in your life is a player like him?

Here is a list of things that will alert you if your guy is a flirt.

Too many girl friends: It is OK for your guy to have a few girl friends but if he is has only girls around him, it is a signal he might be a flirt. And if he has had about 5 to 7 relationships in the past, label him a player and get ready to move on.

Selfish: He loves himself. A flirt will love to discuss himself. He will never care to ask about your day, your thoughts or your opinion. He does not really care. He is obsessed with his life.

Prefers meeting in a car to public places: This one should make alarm bells ring loudest. If he doesn’t want to hang out publically, he is not ready to commit to you. Only a flirt prefers a girl holed up in his car!

Talks about sex: Men love sex! But if your guy loves discussing it every now and then he might be a flirt. But men who love bragging about their sexual prowess is a bit too learned about sex and that is not a good thing, ever!

Different around his buddies: Does your guy act disconnected with you around his friends? Does he act like you are the one who came running after him? Well, he would not be with you for long. Flirts never show a sign that they are serious about a girl, if they aren’t.

Calls at odd hours: Just because he was up partying all night doesn’t mean you were. But if this is a regular pattern he is a flirt. Even if he has a huge gang of friends how can he party every weekend, omitting you from the scene?